For most of us, there’s no gray area… The first dates with our spouses were either great, or a train wreck.
Ours was great. My wife and I did the standard dinner and a movie, but we found out that night we have the same birthday. (Can you say fate!) Even if the first date goes horribly wrong many couples still get together again for a second one, so if you have just gone through that hell there’s still hope.
No pressure. No one remembers their second date.